Him being 33 with no kids of his own I thought it wouldn't be a problem but apparently it was. My Mom was diagnosed with Cancer December 4, 2013. Keep your individuality and don't be needy or whiny. He Keeps Secrets From You Scorpios are secretive. But you need to remember that he needs to show the same concern for you. The Arena Media Brands, LLC and respective content providers to this website may receive compensation for some links to products and services on this website. I couldn't understand this guy for the life of me but I was really falling for him because of it. I was going to ask him if I did something wrong, but I held back in order to not look desperate. They don't talk about feelings which leaves us to wonder what they think and where their at and if they are gone for good. The obvious man to lead it was Le Grange, the only South African who had ever set foot on the South Pole. Like I said its better to move on now because he has. Please someone tell me what to do about my Scorpio guy best friend ! When it's clear that your Scorpio man has gone from one hundred to zero, shift your focus. While your crush might be a Scorpio sun, his personality might be influenced by his rising, moon, and Venus signs as well. There are no gentle touches. Scorpio men are not easy. Even i cant meet any boy (friend) without his permission. I am a pisces. :( scorpions will love u or they will hate u. Libra- I can totally relate to if scorpio man doesn't respond to my texts, I think he's done. Mind you, it will not be a vacation by the sea. Travel. I would argue the opposite. Said we must become friends b4 lovers. Being in Love is wonderful. If he is distant keep it moving and show him that you wont lose any sleep. He may not be saying much, but I guarantee he is listening. We sporadically texted over the next week or so, but I gave up because I noticed I was the only one initiating conversation, and after he ignored a snapchat I sent him, that was the last straw. Now imagine you're a small child that has just discovered the dog's tail and begins to playfully tug on it. He has dropped off the face of the earth but yet when I do see him for a few minutes , he is great! Top 5 tips on how to get a Scorpio woman back: Be honest, direct and precise, don't waste her time. We had plans to hang out but on the day of he bailed on me and hurt my feelings in doing so. There is very little I expect and very little that fazes me but the moment I get the whiff of disloyalty I will stake out my game and take him down he will never come up. Saw him playing maybe 3 Times in that Years. He ignored my calls and texts for days and finally when he did hey back to me he said he can't commit to anything.. I tried to talk to him and I told him that I was asleepI thought he would have realized that I've never ever ignored himhe knows I would never do that. With Mom's encouragement, we decided to meet in April 2014. A few weeks ago we started talking again and admitted our feelings to each other. This is so true! I am currently being extremely patient with a Scorpio who is going through some tough times. He was super into me, to the point where he was almost stalking me (exactly what u mentioned above) although i really didn't mind. Due to Scorpio personality traits, he is introspective and independent. What to Do When Scorpio Man Ignores You? Scorpios along with being secretive, mysterious, sensuous and what not are very emotional. Ignore him, he will retalia After reading all the thread and many many others more I realized he is just like whatever you guys had described. In the beginning, when we first start dating I had told him about a few things that bothered me and he told me 'this feels so breakable'. I really liked this hub. The clip begins with the man dressed in all-black attire and dancing to the song with his expressions on point. Scorpio men and intensity go hand-in-hand. And yes, Scorpio women are quite similar to us Scorpio men in many things. Anyway, we decided to meet up but it didn't end well; I arrived at our meeting place and he wasn't there so I texted him, but he said that I wasn't there so he went to hang out with a friend. Show her you are passionate and not superficial in your attitude. Trust issue or what i dont know. And if you told a certain girl that you like her very much or that she's special, does it mean your'e developing feelings for her already? I think we just do it meaning the love stuff because we love you so much but we get scared to tell you that because we don't know if you really love us too?? Again, anyone going through all of this nonsense, move on. We met 3 Years ago at my Clients Home, i was working there. I went crazy over him, and he seemed to go crazy over me too, and even wanted to make plans for the next meetup before even leaving each other. I have even called him out on his silence. I woke up the next day with him just going off his nut and blocking me on his facebok. If he is a fit for you, your Scorpio will be upset that you are upset. Also of pushing someone away as fear rejection so will self sabotage in order to control outcome, which sadly always ends in pain. Never put them under pressure , they are so sensetive . I am hoping he will talk to me soon. These in-between times usually happen when he is trying to make an effort because he knows you probably don't understand his intensity or because he's genuinely curious about something you mentioned. Suddenly it seems like he can't talk to me Like he's not allowed. But my question is will he come back to me? LeAve Nd then reappear in my life. Even i get scared of me. I can't have him and no one else will ever interest me again. Espesh if you're with a Scorp man for sure!! demanding, all this good Things a Guy should have . As a Scorpio woman, I believe theres at least one more reason which is missing in that list: Scorpio Man wants to feel absolutely in control and indispensable. If he disap p ears, it might be your instinct to blow up his phone with calls and text messages until he replies to you. He may have been looking for a specific chemistry and didn't find it. Both times i had to hear from him via email that its over. I do this, and I can tell you it really ticks me off when I am creating space on purpose, and someone asks me what's wrong. He says back I like you too etc Then I said he was confusing me what did he want and he replies with its not going to workout. He is not interested in a serious relationship and will only stay with you as long as it benefits him. This allows time for your Scorpio man to miss you. Good luck all you gals out there. It might seem like everything's fine when your Scorpio suddenly turns on you, leaving you feeling attacked for no reason. Very true. I am so glad to hear that everyone is having the same concerns. I told him no and he was surprised. I've recently broken up with a Scorpion man. He will not tell me what is wrong. For the second time now he is giving me the silent treatment. He Is Also A Game Player. Ha,nice Guy. He does not show me his emotions , just during our fights says i care about you , i think about you , do not leave me & etc . When he's sad, he often feels deeply and intensely. Well for about a year he has changed. Sagittarius woman with Scorpio man on May 25, 2018: We met and he was proposing after 2 weeks asking me if I would meet his family and friends - I have not had good experiences in love and was a little cautious but eventually his attention, compassion, patience and wonderful personality won me over. The breakthrough came when someone introduced me to this wonderful, great spell caster who eventually helped me out I have never been a fan of things like this but just decided to try reluctantly because I was desperate and left with no choice He did special prayers and used his power Within 7 days my husband called me and he said he was sorry for all the emotional pains he had cost me, moved back to the house and we continue to live happily and our child is happy too. But I seriously think I am pregnant and am freaking out. My bf is soo hot and heavy everyday and then goes off the grid for no more than 48 hrs every so often, and it is usually cuz he is genuinely busy. But about the roller coaster deals we will always love u and sometimes we don't mean to hurt your feelings. He came way strong and even texted to me that he could see being married to me. Is this a characteristic or is he playing games with me :(. I always have a second thought about our relationship. I have a huge problem I was dating my best friend who is a Scorpio and he was such an amazing man. You are theirs alone and nobody else's therefore, you can only share your personal feelings or opinions with him. I just concluded that a woman has far too much control over my emotions. I am crazy about this guy but if he keeps it up I'm going to have to let him go. He doesn't want to work on your relationship - he wants an excuse to end it. Scorpio Signs yes he has the most of them. While Scorpio men are well known for being guarded and secretive, don't confuse those traits with dishonesty. If he has decided to distance himself in preparation to leave you then he is making it easier for you. It seems his actions of disappearing whenever and to wherever have caused your self esteem to diminish. nways, before our first meeting, i asked him to confirm our meeting but he didn't replied. Prove you are serious about it by talking about long-term plans. He's amazing, caring, funny.. Just wonderful but when he is upset, he goes off the grid. "Not only him, most of the Indians don't take tip for doing such thing, in fact we don't feel it's so big help, we grow up with . He will be jealous in silence. I am always in doubt about our relationship longevity. we do talk about sex, but the difference is, he want to know me deeper. But now I haven't heard from him for a week and a half and have no idea why. I love his jealous & possessiveness alot . Here are ten tell-tale signs that your Scorpio man's feelings around the relationship are changing: 1. Scorpio sun signs are born from October 23November 21, right between Libra and Sagittarius. We haven't been intimate and the bullshit has gone on for a year. Nothing serious well so he always said then one night about 3 weeks ago he messaged and asked if we could meet up I said yesthen I didn't hear from him so I assumed he had gotten busy so I just went to beddidn't think much of it. That's yet another "secret" he'll keep from you. Or he "ghosts" and just disappears. The following are key pillars of any strong relationship, but these may need some extra attention when dating a Scorpio. But when they do finally lash out, they do so in brilliant form. He had helped me with some work stuff two weeks ago, but then told me how it stressed him out. Long story short - i asked him whether he was seeing someone and he replied yes, but he only went out for one date only. He basically begged for a second chance. Never expect him to change for you, even if he loves you a lot. Learn why the Scorpio in your life is withdrawn and seems distant. But it was important for me to tell him that I regret what I said. And I can do this over a protracted period of time such as few years. Tell him how you feel. I think the act of distancing himself is more painful than you realize and it probably takes extreme will to stay away. It's quite an experience to see the Scorpio man operate under adversity's black clouds. it was monday and he said cannot because he has work. First, Scorpio doesn't want to be disappointed, so they lay back to ensure the feeling, whether it's only crush or love. Finish that house project you've been putting off, take yourself on a museum date, or enjoy a nice long walk. But whenever were together, I feel he loves me somehow. I asked my scorpio guy if what he's feeling towards me and he said he doesn't know. Sorry to say that but then and only then do you get treated the best. I really wish he would just stop leading me on, wowso helpful to hear all the amazing similaritiesi don't know if 1-5?? He texted the next day a long paragraph why I demonstrate no communication by not texting back and that he wasn't mad at me that day etc Then I gave him a long paragraph explanation reply. He will make you feel like you are the only one for him, but this is only a ploy to make you do what he wants. turned out a week later, he texted me that he got family problem, and i said..oohh..okay..and we chat like usual. It makes them feel like they are not important enough to hear what you have to say about how you feel. Complex for sure, but no more so than any other sign. then i try to contact him asking whether he only wants me for sexting ? If anyone is going through this; stop, drop and roll. I hope this advice helps. What should I do ? He a 7 year old Me a 2 year old. I am NOT going to contact him. Water signs are emotional, and Scorpios are most sensitive of all. I like a 5-8 date minimum. If not more. Remember, your partner's sun sign is never an excuse for abusive behavior. I really think it's the arrogance and a Scorpio. Scorpio is naturally suspicious but soon sees that Cancer's a softy. He is working independently, so he is working lots, busy with his Music Needs and is living one Hour away from me, living with somebody together. Betrayal can consume me as much as love can. I know he read some of my emails because one of the emails I was asking him to send me my stuff from his place and I got a message from FedEx that he sent my stuff. Hopefully, now he can apologize, or at the very least stop ignoring you. He . The drop off in feelings are generally never as sudden as you think, unless there's a serious betrayal. He could disappeared for about 3-4 days without even telling anything. Make sure he sees that. how dos one know if he is really interested in you.. he barely talks, I am from United Kingdom England, I just want to share my experience with the world on how Dr Mack, help me, and got my love back and saved my marriage I was married for 3 years with a child and we lived happily until things started getting ugly and we had fights and argued almost every time it got worse at a point that he filed for divorce I tried my best to make him change his mind & stay with me because I love him so much and dont want to lose him but everything just didn't work out he moved out of the house because it was a rented apartment and still went ahead to file for divorce I pleaded and tried everything but still nothing worked. Hi , i am a sagittarian girl . But when I speak to him its just short answers. So basically breaking up with me. I know he loves me and he had showed me and he had told me he's serious about me so I dont have doubt about it. If i do , i fear he may not trust me anymore. We flirt constantly , talk about crazy things and have fun. At first, I was like omg what did I do wrong and then scorp man let it be known that everything is fine. & i saw him posts in other social app . Our Love is real we know it from the Start. It is so tough to leave him alone when he is in a funk but I hve 2 give him space or he will disappear. I've dated other Scorpios before and they were all super cool in the beginning and then they became mean afterwards so it wasn't hard for me to let go of them. When he gets offended, he will try to go about his usual routine in silence as a coping mechanism. This is #1 for a reason. What should I be doing when he is acting cold? Make him WORK for you, if he wont then keep it moving as he will if it were you. Is this how Scorpio men behave? They may tell occasional white lies, but they can never truly pretend or fake, which means they often come off as overly blunt. These guys have the most intense eyes in the zodiac. 1. he's working, he is charming but he talk only about sex. If a Scorpio man likes you, you can glimpse his longing for you when you lock eyes with him. while he's missing in action, i found another guy online and this guy is just a year older(gemini). Get ready to be asked about your whereabouts and what you're doing at the moment. Pretending everything is fine will only make him feel worse. Have a Beautiful Daughter to the last of the 3 Loves. When a Scorpio feels something, their feelings Run deep and it seems really difficult for them to open up at first. We were walking one day and he asked about my stress etc..I made the mistake of telling him how I got my feelings hurt about christmas, but was fine after he explained himself , I also explained that because of the stress I had caused him before I didnt want to share all the work stress I had had so I have been talking to a couple of other friends (guy friends) he shut down. So when he's busy "in the zone"; he may not be thinking of you at that time. If you aren't sure about him, don't put up with his games. It felt so perfect..like I just stumbled upon a soulmate. He is royally pissed off, and instead of lashing out, he has decided to spare you his vindictive tongue. He said "I am going to cause you stress, you will cause me stress" if we cant do that then we cant do this. Bottom line is, I am losing my mind and I need help. Most of time we have different opinion. What is this man saying? He is pure magnificence. Hes naturally secretive and very vindictive, dont stand for it and don't miss out waiting on him. I guess it was probly #1 thow since his mom is in the hospital. When that doesn't get the point across or make him feel vindicated, he'll become passive-aggressive. I really wish u all well ladies and hope I helped a tad. Yes, they do play games , but its just to feel you out and see your loyalty. 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